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The world is wider after fifty.

A travel guide for the over-50s — written from a comfy chair in the UK, posted from beaches, temples and back-street kitchens across South-East Asia. Real trips, honest tips, and the occasional very good plate of curry.

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About this guide

Hello from somewhere quieter.

I'm a UK-based traveller, on the sunnier side of fifty, who finally decided that the second half of life deserves better than a long weekend in Cornwall once a year. So I started travelling — properly. South-East Asia first, because the food is brilliant and the welcome is warmer than the weather.

This site is where I jot down what I've learned: where to go, what to eat, and the small practical things that make a long trip easier when you're carrying a bit more luggage and a bit more wisdom than the backpackers next to you.

"You don't need to retire to travel. You just need to start."

If you're 50, 60, 70 or just curious about what travel looks like at this stage of life — pull up a chair. There's room for you here.

The Journal

Recent trips, told properly.

Lanterns, ruins & a slow train south.

Central Vietnam is one of those rare places that rewards taking it slowly — perfect for travellers who'd rather linger than tick boxes.

Hoi An at night is the postcard everyone tries to take. The Japanese Covered Bridge — lit gold against the canal, paper lanterns drifting past on the water — is genuinely as good as the photographs suggest. Skip the day-trip crowds and stay overnight; once the coach tours leave, the old town softens completely.

From there, take the train. The four-hour run between Hue and Da Nang clings to the coastline as it crosses the Hai Van Pass — sea on one side, jungle-cloaked mountains on the other. It's been called one of the world's great rail journeys, and for once the rumour is true. Pack a coffee, sit by the window, do nothing.

Inland, the temples and tombs reward a half-day each. The detail inside is extraordinary — porcelain mosaics, gilded statuary, ceilings painted like night skies. An hour out of Hoi An, the My Son ruins are quieter still: red brick Hindu temples slowly being reclaimed by the hillside, with barely a soul around if you go early.

Japanese Covered Bridge in Hoi An lit at night
Japanese Bridge, Hoi An
Mountain and sea view from the Hue to Da Nang train
The train south
Brick temple ruins at My Son near Hoi An
My Son ruins

The temples that stop you mid-step.

You don't need to be religious to feel something here. You just need to look up.

Some of the best moments of the trip happened by accident — a wrong turn down a side street, a quiet pagoda tucked behind a gate, a doorway in a temple where the light fell just so. Central Vietnam is dense with these places, and the trick is to wander in without a plan and let them surprise you.

Bring something with sleeves (most temples ask for shoulders covered), wear shoes that come off easily, and give yourself longer than you think. There's no rushing a place that's been there 800 years.

Vietnamese pagoda with green trees
A quiet afternoon
Ornate gold and blue temple interior
Inside the tomb

Two islands, two completely different moods.

Thailand's gulf islands are an over-50s dream — but they aren't all the same. Pick your pace.

Koh Samui is the easy one. Big enough that you can rent a scooter (or, more sensibly, a taxi for the day) and still find a quiet beach. Sunsets here are the slow, pink, palm-tree kind — the sort that genuinely make you forget what day it is. The food is exceptional and the medical infrastructure is reassuring; if you're testing the waters of long-stay travel later in life, Samui is a brilliant place to start.

Koh Tao is smaller, scrappier, and quieter — though if you wander down to one of the beach clubs after dark you might catch a fire show. Fire spinners flinging arcs of sparks across the sand to a thumping soundtrack: not what you expect from a quiet island, and all the better for it.

If you only do one thing on Koh Tao, it's this: walk down to the beach for sunset with absolutely no agenda. The longtail boats anchor offshore, the sky goes through every colour it owns, and you'll stop checking your phone for the first time in months.

Sunset with longtail boats at Koh Tao
Koh Tao sunset
Pink sunset and palm tree on Koh Samui beach
Samui evenings
Fire show on the beach with sparks flying
Fire show, Koh Tao
On the table

A scrapbook of plates worth flying for.

Half of why I keep going back. From mango sticky rice in candle-lit Bangkok restaurants to fresh spring rolls in Da Nang and a curry trio that ruined Western Thai food for me forever.

Massaman, panang and curry chicken on a wooden table
Massaman, panang, & curry chicken — Koh Samui
Spring rolls and pho in Da Nang
Fresh spring rolls — Da Nang
Mango sticky rice with edible flower
Mango sticky rice — Bangkok
Whole grilled fish and chicken with herbs in Koh Samui
Grilled fish & chicken — Samui
Curry chicken with rice and fried egg
Curry chicken & rice — Samui
Beef pad kra pao with rice and fried egg
Beef pad kra pao — Samui
Practical wisdom

Travel tips, 50 and beyond.

A working list of the things that actually matter when you're booking a long trip later in life. Some apply to anyone — the rest, you'll appreciate by the second week.

01

Sort your travel insurance properly

The over-50 policies are different — and most cheap ones won't cover existing conditions. Use a specialist (Saga, Staysure, Avanti) and read the medical declaration carefully. Pay the extra for proper cover. It's the single most important thing you'll do.

02

Pack lighter than feels reasonable

You will not need three pairs of shoes. South-East Asia is hot, laundry is cheap, and dragging a heavy case up a flight of stairs in 33-degree heat is no one's idea of a good time. One carry-on of clothes and a pair of broken-in trainers will get you a long way.

03

Take the slower route

Trains and overnight ferries beat short-haul flights for everything except speed. You'll see more, sleep better, and arrive less wrecked. Three weeks doing two countries properly trumps six countries in three weeks every time.

04

Get an eSIM before you fly

Apps like Airalo or Holafly let you buy a data plan online and activate it on landing — no faffing about with shop SIMs in airports. Having Google Maps and Grab the moment you walk out of arrivals is genuinely brilliant.

05

Book the first three nights, then improvise

You'll always think you want everything locked in. You don't. Book your arrival hotel and one or two highlights, then leave room to follow recommendations from people you meet. The best places are rarely on the first page of TripAdvisor.

06

Pace yourself — properly

Build in a "do nothing" day every fourth or fifth day. Read by a pool. Have a long lunch. Travel fatigue is real and sneaks up faster after 50. The trip you remember is the one where you weren't exhausted for the back half of it.

07

Eat where the locals eat

Plastic chairs, busy turnover, no English menu — that's the sign. Street food in Thailand and Vietnam is some of the safest in the world precisely because it gets eaten so quickly. Empty restaurants on tourist streets are far riskier.

08

Carry two cards, in two places

One in the wallet, one in the hotel safe. Tell your bank you're travelling. Take a no-FX card (Chase, Starling, Wise) for the daily spending. ATMs in Thailand charge a flat fee per withdrawal — take out larger amounts less often.

09

Find a friend on the ground

Whether it's a guide, a tour leader, or someone like Siam Stay below — having one local person to text when something goes sideways is worth its weight in gold. Most problems are tiny if you've got someone to ask.

My project

Siam Stay — Thailand, without the guesswork.

For travellers who want more than a holiday. A handpicked, lived-in introduction to Thailand from someone who's already done the hard part.

Whether you're testing the waters for an extended stay, planning a longer holiday, or seriously considering a move — Siam Stay is your shortcut to the real Thailand. No tourist traps. No guesswork. Just honest guidance from someone who's walked the road, particularly tailored for travellers in their 50s and beyond.

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    Curated stays Handpicked accommodation in Koh Samui — places I'd send my own family.
  • 02
    Local insight, on tap Visa pointers, hospital tips, the best noodle stalls. The questions you didn't know to ask.
  • 03
    A friend on the ground WhatsApp away when you need a sanity check, a recommendation, or a translation.
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